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How do I access my desires when I don't know what I want?
Desire, Pleasure, Communication Kassandra Mourikis Desire, Pleasure, Communication Kassandra Mourikis

How do I access my desires when I don't know what I want?

Where did the idea come from that people should be experts at sex, to know exactly what they want before they’ve ever tried it and to communicate this with confidence? You can’t tell how good something is going to taste before you’ve tasted it, so why do we hold unrealistic expectations of ourselves when it comes to sex?

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Painful Sex: Understanding Why Painful Penetration Occurs & What Can Help
Pain, Pleasure Kassandra Mourikis Pain, Pleasure Kassandra Mourikis

Painful Sex: Understanding Why Painful Penetration Occurs & What Can Help

Pain during penetrative sex or the fear of painful penetration can impact anyone, in diverse ways, with numerous different contributing factors. When all people in a relationship are working to address painful penetration together, and when those people can access resources to understand and begin to address causes of painful sex, positive outcomes are possible.

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How Masturbation Could Improve Your Sex Life</strong>
Masturbation, Pleasure, Desire Kassandra Mourikis Masturbation, Pleasure, Desire Kassandra Mourikis

How Masturbation Could Improve Your Sex Life

If you’ve ever struggled to experience pleasure during sex, find sex uncomfortable or awkward or have yet to experience an orgasm, it makes sense why you might not feel like partnered sex or why you may experience a lower sexual desire. Prioritising self-pleasure can be an effective way to exploring your sexuality and reigniting your sex life.

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Prioritising Pleasure - part 2
Pleasure Kassandra Mourikis Pleasure Kassandra Mourikis

Prioritising Pleasure - part 2

Changing the culture of sex and pleasure is necessary to shift the dominant narrative away from a view that states that pleasure is only available for certain bodies towards pleasure being available for everyone without limits.

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