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How To Deal with Sexual Rejection
Exploring the stories we tell ourselves about rejection and our worth, why being turned down hurts so much and how to deal with sexual rejection.
How do I access my desires when I don't know what I want?
Where did the idea come from that people should be experts at sex, to know exactly what they want before they’ve ever tried it and to communicate this with confidence? You can’t tell how good something is going to taste before you’ve tasted it, so why do we hold unrealistic expectations of ourselves when it comes to sex?
How do we navigate a relationship when one partners libido is much lower than anothers?
It’s common for partners to have differences in desire, something that most people in partnerships will experience at some point. While this difference is normal, few of us taught how to navigate it and the feelings that arise with it, contributing to growing anxiety, distress, resentment, avoidance and sometimes even the end of a relationship.
Is It Possible To Change your Desire?
Is it possible to adapt your sexuality or shift your desire so it’s a better fit within your relationship? Or is there a more helpful approach to reducing desire related distress in relationships?
Body Image, Sex and Pleasure
It’s no surprise that how you feel about your appearance can significantly impact your wellbeing, mental health and your sex life.
How Masturbation Could Improve Your Sex Life
If you’ve ever struggled to experience pleasure during sex, find sex uncomfortable or awkward or have yet to experience an orgasm, it makes sense why you might not feel like partnered sex or why you may experience a lower sexual desire. Prioritising self-pleasure can be an effective way to exploring your sexuality and reigniting your sex life.
Sex and Relationships in The Time of COVID-19
Many of you have probably wondered, given that so many people are spending more time at home than ever before, is everyone else just having lots of sex? The answer, as you probably expected, is complicated